Magnetism isn't a Mystery—It's Embodied Erotic Energy

"It is intense to feel awakened, embodied sexual energy, but you can do it and you know you want to do it.

When it is active and flowing through you freely, without reservation, without inhibition, and you feel confident in yourself and your ability to direct this energy—to melt the ego and allow this soulful love, this embodied love to flow through you—it lights up your eyes, makes your skin glow, and your aura expands in such a way that you become a magnetic presence and people feel it in your presence.

This is embodiment of erotic energy."

The Devotion Rising in Me

What's rising in me personally is the offering of my gifts. I am so devoted to service right now. I want to serve. I feel very clear that I have a lot of energy available and the ways that I've been training myself are for the purpose of helping others. I have specifically trained myself for, as well as being born with an inclination towards, bridging the gap between the sexual self and the spiritual self—that they are not separate—when religion and culture might have us believe otherwise.

A New Depth of Service

I am ready to serve in a deeper capacity, which looks like more personal deep dives with individuals who are looking for the quantum shift. That means they are tired of the story of being unworthy. They've already been doing a lot of work on themselves, which means that they're fully open and available to a quantum shift.

The potency is already here, and it's more so the nervous system programming that needs to get on board and adapt to this upleveled way of being. The reason it's an upleveled way of being is because sexual energy is not just about having sex and producing children, or having sex and fueling your intimate relationship. It is about those things, and those things are very important.

Sexual Energy is Life Energy

But on a more integrated level, where we zoom out and look at the experience of life—specifically of being in a body—sexual energy is a part of our vitality.

I mean, it's pretty obvious based on the scientific correlations around fertility being related to general vitality. I don't think we think about its implications outside of our fertility.

Erotic energy is fuel for life, and what has been rising in me since the launch of my membership is the desire to work more intimately with women who are looking for more of a fast track. The fast track doesn't mean rushing your process. It means that you have already been working on your nervous system, your mind, your heart, your body.

Erotic energy is fuel for life, especially for those who want to fall in love with their lives and have intimacy in their lives. For those women who want to feel lit up and turned on, not just as a pathway to orgasm. And if you are resonating with this message, I probably don't even need to say that.

The Fast Track to Erotic Embodiment

So what's been rising in me ever since I launched my membership at the beginning of January 2025 is my desire to work with the women who are looking for the fast track to the embodiment of their erotic goddess.

They've been cut off from that energy or are afraid of their inner lover—whether it's from trauma or failed relationships, or from not being able to get the pleasure they are looking to get during sex. By being cut off from this part of themselves, they're cut off from an entire part of themselves that touches many facets of life.

They want to be the lover of their own dreams. They want to be the embodiment of desire because it resonates with them as a part of who they are. They want to walk in the room and be magnetic and have their cup be so overflowing that those called to their gifts naturally feel the draw to drink from their well. And I don't mean having sex with them, although it could mean that too.

Calling in the Women Who Are Ready

So what I am looking for as a priestess, as a coach: I am looking for the women who are deeply ready. They're already ready to say yes, and they want to say yes to more with their entire bodies. They have been working on their hearts, their nervous systems, their minds, their relationships, their spiritual life for quite some time, but when it comes to sex, pleasure, and intimacy, there's a blockage, a disconnection, a fear, or a mountain of emotional baggage that prevents them from living into their fullness.

When you sign up for the Radiant Intensive, it's not about speeding up your process. It's about sinking into your knowing for the 12 sessions that we meet, receiving the transmission, being held, being in the field of erotic energy as holy and as already present in you.

And together we work through whatever presents in those moments as barriers to your radiance. It's more about the present emergence of your power in its fullness in each moment, so your body up-levels and integrates this energy.

Membership vs. Radiant Intensive

To clarify the difference: the membership model takes you through a process with practices, journaling exercises, and yoga/meditation practices that help your body become prepared to hold this energy.

Some of you feel like you need that. Some of you feel like the fear is so strong, the trauma is so deep, the believability is so low—but the desire is still there and the hope is still there, so you want more of that longer process that's going to help you integrate more slowly. That is the membership.

The Radiant Intensive—and I called it "intensive" for a reason. It is intense. And personally, I love intensity.

The Power of Intensity

I crave intense moments. And if I don't have healthy, intense moments, I will create unhealthy, intense moments. That is a part of my nature. That is a part of being a passionate being, and part of erotic embodiment.

So I specifically called it the Radiant Intensive because I want to be honest with you: it is intense to feel awakened, embodied sexual energy. But you can do it. And you know you want to do it.

When it is active and flowing through you freely, without reservation, without inhibition, and you feel confident in yourself and your ability to direct this energy—to melt the ego and allow this soulful love, this embodied love to flow through you—it lights up your eyes, makes your skin glow, and your aura expands in such a way that you become a magnetic presence and people feel it in your presence.

This is embodiment of erotic energy.

Deepening the Work

My desire is to sit with the women—whether virtually or in person—and walk you through a process that is a deepening and a widening. We expand the depth and the breadth of your capacity to embody your erotic energy.

During our time together, you will have access to the membership book and the videos, which are practices that will help you process the energy. And I will give you some practices to do at home, but for the most part our work takes place during the sessions.

My Sacred Name and Mission

This is what's alive in me. I, Emily—Priestess Emerald Indigo Lightning (that is my priestess name; many of you do not know that, but that is the name in the 5D and in my sacred circles)—I am feeling the call to bring an illuminated lens to this body of work. We need your radiance more than ever.

Love is not an illusion. Love is truth. And we need more people living into their truth fearlessly at this time. While our systems and institutions that were built in the old way are falling away, we will not let the fear of change win. We will let love win by becoming the embodiment of our highest expression of love and desire.

Living into Truth and Love

That is our gift to ourselves and the world. And it shows us what is possible. It shows us what's possible within ourselves and our lives.

What it looks like personally: it looks like courageous intimacy with your lover. It looks like radical and forgiving self-care. It looks like all experiences are valid. It looks like a widening of the heart for greater compassion, forgiveness, and connection. It looks like healing hyper-independence and allowing yourself to be seen, heard, and held by a community—your local community, but also our virtual sisterhood. Because it's nice to have both, right?

It's nice to know that even if in your local community you're still feeling triggered, like you can't show up in your full light—this is where we practice that. And we are a sisterhood of women devoted to showing up in our full light.

Honoring the Divine Feminine

We are so programmed to play small. We are so programmed to be afraid. We're programmed to believe that to be humble means to give away of oneself. And what I'm learning is that this is all the continued reinforcement of the illusion of separation, but also the lack of value and reverence for the principle feminine energy.

To really create space for the divine feminine, we must believe in its innate value. And that is believing in our innate value as radiant beings.

Part of showing up for the divine feminine—as the divine feminine, as a service to this world—is honoring your desire.

Let that sink in for a minute.

If You Feel the Call

So if it scares you to get what you want, but it also feels wildly exciting...

If it is important to you to create radical intimacy...

If it feels unnatural to be cut off from your Eros—this desire, this love that lights up your body from the inside out...

If you feel like it would be more natural to have the connection, and you don't have the connection...

Then the Radiant Intensive is for you.

It is a significant investment. It's proportionate to the impact on your life and to the energy expansion.

Through the Radiance Temple processes, we excavate for hidden treasures. We give them energy. Expand your desire, your longings, your yearning, your radiance, your vitality, your gifts, your spiritual gifts. We expand. We give them energy. Helping you feel and become all of you.

No bad parts.

Just like the IFS system—there's a book out there called No Bad Parts.

We hold you as you're presented with any fear of showing up in your fullness, and then we help you integrate into your life.

When You Feel Stuck, Don’t Isolate

Integration is key. When you feel stuck, you probably need support. One thing I'm noticing with this work is that when women get stuck, they isolate. There seems to be some kind of shame, some kind of guilt, some kind of separation that comes with feeling stuck.

Well, I am more of an introvert. My cup is filled from being quiet, being alone, being at home, being in nature. But if you are falling into negative thinking about life or about yourself, it is important to show up and ask for help in the community. That's one of the main reasons that this virtual community exists.

The Role of the Virtual Temple

Now, I just want to say something about the virtual community because it's been very quiet. It's looking a lot like the Emily Show, and that was never my intention.

At the same time, as the founder of the community, I feel the joy of the responsibility and the joy of figuring out the creative process that it takes to create a safe space and open a safe space. Not just a safe space—a courageous space, a brave space—for women to feel connected to one another.

Most of us in there don't know one another physically, and it's difficult to practice embodiment in a disembodied community. So that is a part of why it's important for me to start turning my focus to working more intimately one-on-one with people, doing local events in Cincinnati, and focusing more on these one-to-one intensive coaching programs.

Continuing the Mission

However, this virtual temple will still remain what it is for now. I believe that it's a bit ahead of its time, and that's kind of true to the nature of the things that I birth in general. They are ahead of their time and ahead of me even being ready to hold them—which is totally what happened back in 2021 when I launched a similar program in the name of Yoga for Sexual Wellness.

So life is funny that way, and I'm here for it.

Healing the desire wound, bridging the gap between sexual energy and spiritual living, and supporting women into their self-assured, radiant confidence is a mission that I hold that is not going away.

Even though it's quiet in Radiance Temple and slow right now, I think that it's going to provide us with some juicy fun and support. And I just keep moving on in that direction.

A Final Word

So hear my call, sisters: if you are confronted with qualms about your own erotic embodiment, you are not alone. There is something waking up in us.

We are starting to remember that the phrase "sex sells" is actually meant for us to sell ourselves—not sell, but also to sell. The idea that sex sells is showing us the power of sexual energy and the power of sensual embodiment and the power of desire.

And right now we have a very commercialized version of that in our culture. It's accepted, but it's also resented. And it also creates certain ideas of what it should look like based on the images that we see in the media.

But you and I both know that self-assuredness, feeling juicy in your body and in your own skin, does not have to do with the shape or size or color of your body. It is about how you feel in your own skin. And whatever shape, size, or color—a woman who feels good in her own body is a magnet of love, and everybody feels better in her presence.

You and I both know that. So remember that.

And I would love for some dialogue. So if you are a member of our Radiance Temple, I'm going to post this in the Temple. I would love to hear your thoughts, some comments and feedback.

And if you are ready to sink into the Intensive, I have an application. Or you can book a call with me, and we can discuss what that could look like.

Thank you so much for listening (reading). May your radiance shine forth today and always.